The Airline Passenger's Etiquette Guide: How Not to Be 'That Person' on a Plane

The Airline Passenger's Etiquette Guide: How Not to Be 'That Person' on a Plane

We've all been there. Stuck next to that person on a plane. The one who talks loudly on their phone, reclines their seat into your lap, or hogs the armrest. Air travel can be stressful enough without adding inconsiderate behavior to the mix. So, let's brush up on some basic airline etiquette and ensure we're all doing our part to make flying a more pleasant experience for everyone. Consider this your guide to not being "that person" on a plane.

Personal Space & Boundaries:

The Armrest Agreement: The armrest is a shared resource. Generally, the middle seat passenger gets both armrests. If you're in the window or aisle seat, be mindful and share. A little nudge here and there is understandable, but hogging it entirely is a no-go.

Reclining Responsibly: Reclining your seat is your prerogative, but do it with caution. Look behind you before you recline and do it slowly. Consider the person behind you, especially if they have limited legroom or are eating. During meal times, it's generally considered polite to keep your seat upright.  

The Overhead Bin Battle: Stow your carry-on luggage efficiently and don't overpack. If your bag barely fits, it's probably too big. Be quick and decisive when stowing your bag to avoid holding up the line. And for the love of all that is holy, don't put your tiny purse in the overhead bin while your massive suitcase goes under the seat.

Personal Space Bubble: Be mindful of your personal space. Avoid bumping into other passengers, especially when moving through the aisle. Keep your elbows in and don't spread out your belongings unnecessarily.

Noise & Communication:

Phone Etiquette: Keep your phone on silent or vibrate mode during the flight. Avoid loud conversations, especially after the cabin lights are dimmed. If you must make a call, keep it brief and speak softly.

Volume Control: Whether you're listening to music, watching a movie, or playing a game, keep the volume down. Your entertainment shouldn't be a source of noise pollution for other passengers. Noise-canceling headphones are your friend.

Chatty Cathy/Carl: While some people enjoy chatting on flights, others prefer peace and quiet. Gauge your seatmate's interest in conversation before launching into a monologue. If they seem disengaged, respect their desire for quiet.

Crying Babies (and Adults): Babies cry. It's a fact of life. Parents, do your best to soothe your little ones, but other passengers should also show some grace. However, full-grown adults should have better control of their emotions. Save the dramatic outbursts for after you land.

Food & Drink:

Smelly Snacks: Be mindful of strong-smelling foods. While you might enjoy your tuna sandwich, the aroma might not be appreciated by your fellow passengers. Opt for less pungent snacks.

Barefoot Bandit: Keep your shoes on, at least for most of the flight. No one wants to smell your feet, especially in a confined space.

Bathroom Breaks: Be quick and efficient when using the lavatory. Don't linger longer than necessary. And please, for everyone's sake, keep it clean.

General Courtesy:

Respect the Flight Crew: Flight attendants are there to ensure your safety and comfort. Be polite and respectful to them. Follow their instructions and avoid making unnecessary demands.  

Boarding & Deplaning: Be patient during boarding and deplaning. Don't rush or push. Wait your turn and allow other passengers to retrieve their belongings.

Window Shade Wars: If you have the window seat, it's generally polite to keep the shade down during the flight, especially if it's daytime. However, be considerate of your seatmates' preferences.

Helping Hands: Offer to help other passengers, especially those with children or disabilities. A little kindness can go a long way.

By following these simple etiquette guidelines, we can all contribute to a more pleasant and enjoyable flying experience. Remember, we're all in this tin can in the sky together. Let's make it as comfortable as possible for everyone.

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